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Why I have no competition.

Competition v. Collaboration

I’ve never been a fan of competition.  Maybe that’s why I shied away from team sports as a kid.  I never wanted to buy into the “us against them” mentality.  It just didn’t jibe with my personality.  

Instead I enjoyed activities like running or swimming, where I was mainly competing against myself.

As much as I abhor it, competition has always been an undercurrent in every industry I’ve worked in.

The media and public relations industries were and still are infamous for being “dog-eat-dog” competitive.  Nevertheless, I managed to do pretty well in both.

Now I’m in the coaching industry where everyone claims to have the keys to your success.

In fact, there are many well-known coaches out there who’s work is very similar to mine.  

Noticing the similarities one woman asked me,“Aren’t you concerned that she’ll take some of your clients?” 

“Absolutely not,” I responded.

See, I have the audacity to believe that where I’m concerned, there is no competition.  Here’s why:

1.) I believe there is more than enough clients, money and opportunities to keep all of us busy and profitable. Competing with others suggests a belief that there is not enough which comes from a scarcity mindset.  I’m not down with that. I want us ALL to succeed!

2.)  I will not ever battle another human being for anything.  I will, however wage war in the spirit realm through prayer, surrender and decreeing things with the Word.  I’ve seen more results with this strategy than anything else.

3.) I believe that in this generation, collaboration is one of the most powerful success strategies we will ever use.  When women who are so-called “competitors” come together to support and lift each other up, a powerful heavenly force is unleashed.  As a result everyone benefits in ways the mind cannot even imagine.

4.) I have too much proof of God’s awesome favor working on my behalf in the past to not believe that it won’t do the same for me in the future.  Don’t even get me started on that, LOL!

Add these beliefs to the power of being focused (on your goal), having clarity (about the problems you can solve and for whom), having a strategy (for reaching those who need you) and having a high standard of excellence then it’s impossible to get distracted by the fear of “competition.”

I know this “no competition” idea is a radical one to embrace, especially in the business world. But operating in this supernatural space has gotten me a lot closer to my destiny than worrying about what others are doing.

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Will success continue to elude you? Will you be in the same position you’re currently in next year? How will you change that?

 

Forgiveness as a success strategy.

If you’ve been around me for a while, you know that my focus is helping women create more money, freedom, influence and overflow. However it is impossible to sustain those areas without dealing with the role forgiveness plays in your quest for success.

Your most powerful success strategy could be forgiveness.

Did you know that forgiveness literally has the power to tear down strongholds in your life?  Certainly you’ve heard people in the spiritual realm talk about this but I believe this idea can also apply in business.  
 
CASE STUDY: Not too long ago, I was working with a visionary leader who has broken through some incredible barriers in her life. To call her a survivor is an understatement.
 
Yet, with all that she’s achieved and overcome, she was still struggling with how to step into the level of success that she desired.  It was like she was hitting a wall every time she tried to move forward.
 
When I asked her who she needed to forgive, there was a brief pause. Then she rattled off the names of several people by whom she had been mistreated.  She admitted that she had not yet been able to forgive them for the pain they had caused.
 
Her admission was courageous.  It was also freeing. Immediately, the light bulb went off.  She realized that the feelings she was harboring against her offenders may have been stifling her momentum.  Without hesitation she agreed to start the “forgiveness work.”
 
How can God trust you with more if you will not forgive?
 
Now I’m no forgiveness expert, but I’ve had to work through my own issues in this area.  Plus, as a trained and certified coach, I know how to walk my clients through exercises that are simple yet so liberating that in many cases, a breakthrough happens instantly. I’ve learned that forgiveness is vitally important no matter what.
 
So who do you need to forgive? If you can’t think of anyone, do you need to forgive yourself?
 
Forgiveness, even for the most traumatic offenses, might be the weapon you need to help you break past the barrier that is separating you from the success and freedom you’ve been searching for.
 
DISCLAIMER: This is a weighty issue so consider seeking the help of a credentialed therapist to help you work through and move past deep wounds.
 
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Serena would have failed without this.
Serena with her coach Patrick Mouratoglou. (image courtesy of nypost.com taken by Chris Trotman/Getty Images for the USTA)

Michael Jordan.

Oprah Winfrey.

Serena Williams.

All of them represent the best in their business and all of them have had a coach. 

Yes, even the indomitable, record-breaking Serena Williams works with a coach to help her maintain her winning mindset.

You see, a coach is invaluable no matter whether you’re a newbie or a veteran in business.  Even once you’ve reached your personal best, a coach will help you move fearlessly and strategically to your next level.

If you’re just starting out and you’ve never had a coach, here’s what a skilled one can help you do:

- Shift your mindset: The mindset that got you where you are today is not the one that’s going to get you where you want to go.  Your coach will help you think in the direction of your goal.  In other words, the thoughts that subconsciously held you back will be uncovered and you’ll discover a new way of thinking that will support you at your next level.

- Create a blueprint for success: Once you make that shift and you decide where you want to go, your coach will help you chart the course and support you as you take action and gain momentum.

- Be your “no excuses” accountability partner: As you decide to step into your full potential, never underestimate the power of having an extra set of eyes and ears (and an extra brain).  Your coach is there to love you, push you, stretch you, believe in you and keep you to your word.  She is also there to help you work through all the doubt, fear and bullshit that comes up along the way.

Think about it.  When Serena Williams steps off the court, does she sit there alone trying to figure out her next move?  Absolutely not.  There is ALWAYS a coach on the sidelines, who can see the match from a unique perspective, who is waiting to support her and recommend strategies for winning the game.

A skilled coach also helps you move from your “safe zone” into your bold zone.  Your safe zone is comfy and familiar.  The majority of people spend their lives there and I totally understand why.  Who wants to face the uncertainty that comes with leaping when you don’t know if you’ll fail? 

Those who venture into their bold zone however, unlock a level of potential they never knew they had.  It’s exhilarating to see what you can do when you stop being so afraid to fail. 

When you’re ready to tap into your inner “Serena,” partner with a certified coach.  You’ll experience yourself on a whole new level.  Of course OverFlow Coaches are certified, trained and ready to help you create your next level breakthrough.  The question is, are you ready?

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